How to write a book. My process

My thoughts exactly. Well, it is coming true. After 4 years of going back and forth on writing and stop writing, I am FINALLY on the road to getting it done.

It hasn’t always been my dream to be a published author. In fact, it was the last thing I ever thought I would be doing. I was very much into fashion and designing. I enjoyed looking at beautiful clothing and creating my own outfits in my head. I went to school for fashion design.

I then pursued a BA in fashion marketing and management. So to be throwing all that to the wind and saying “Hey let’s write a book”, it is a foreign idea for me as well.

The inspiration hit when I took two years off to focus on myself and recover from family tragedies. I spent most of those two years with journals by my side. I filled nearly 14 journals by the end. About a little bit later, I enrolled in a writing class at my college. It was a prerequisite and didn’t think much about it.

The professor turned out to be a publishing author and was working on his next piece of literature. I enjoyed the class, and actually looked forward to the projects that were assigned.

One day during class, the professor called me to the front to hand back my last assignment, detailing the most embarrassing moment in my life. As he handed it back, he said, “You have a great writing style. Has anyone ever told you that before?”

That is when it hit me that maybe I could do something in writing. I have two years full of journals, and plenty of memories to fill the pages of a novel. I began one night and before I knew it I had 16 pages already.

But then why did it take me so long to finish? Well, most of what I was writing was based on real-life experience. And in real life, not everything is pleasant nor is it always fun to face. I also got distracted. I fell in love, I graduated from college, and began working. Everything kind of took a back seat.

But the passion to finish this book never died, nor did it falter. At the same time, I knew I couldn’t do this book alone. I hit my wall and needed to ask for help. The second I realized I needed a ghostwriter or writing coach, I told my really good friend at home. Without delay, she wrote back with a contact of a ghostwriter who has been in the industry for 12 years.

The next week we spoke and it clicked. I felt very comfortable talking with the lady and already got great feedback. By the end of the week, I handed in the first three sections of my book and an overview. The overview made me realize that I had left chunks of my story out that I wanted to include. It organized me in a whole new way and got me excited about this adventure of writing again.

This is what is helping me continue writing my book:

  • I took Facebook down, so I can really concentrate on what I need to do
  • I asked for help when I realized I could no longer do this alone
  • I have a very experienced writer that will keep me on track and help guide me to the finish line

I am excited about what is to come!

 

Maybe Editors Want Us To Fail

Like I did at one point. I just wanted it to all get swept away in an earth-shattering tsunami so it would all be wiped clean and I could start anew. No one would know my words or the videos I created. I couldn’t deal. I didn’t want the vulnerability that came with creativity. I wanted to feel safe. I wanted to fail. Only it was like waking up inside a dream. And you realize you’re naked and exposed and in that lapse between dreaming and wakefulness.

Only everyone is looking at your art and creativity instead of your nudity. And they’re mocking you. You just want to wake up and shake free from that kind of intimate exposure. Creatives have an interesting dilemma. We’re typically more depressed than our non-creative counterparts.

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Where’s Your Writing Genie?

On my misty, early morning walk through the Enchanted Forest of Avondale Estates today, as I inhaled deeply the fragrances of abelia & crepe myrtle, the sunlight slanted down through leaves and fronds in all shades of emerald, lime, evergreen & dusky magnolia.

Magical memories, as a beautiful campfire song from Girl Scouts played in my mind…

“In the land of dreaming, not so far away,
Walked a total stranger at the break of day…
New lamps for old, tarnished ones for gold- –
Aladdin is selling new lamps for old…”

Oh, how this lovely melody and its wistful words recall an era when I honestly believed I could be a wild horse and run unfettered, forever!

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Glorious Lyrics – How to write them

ee827c7cfLyric writing is a highly creative writing style where words are taken to be added to a style of music, and then are sung to a melody, or spoken, thus creating something we call a song. So let’s talk about Glorious Lyrics – how to write them.

Lyric writing is recognized as art, so if you have decided to start writing lyrics, you will automatically become an artist in the music field, regardless whether you are earning a living by doing that or not.

The world of Lyric Writing is a pretty exclusive club. There aren’t that many people who have a love or passion for writing lyrics, so think about what it actually is that sets you apart. Just realize that there’s no difference between many famous writers and you, except that they’ve got a lot more practice and done it for a longer time.

What exactly are Song Lyrics?

Song lyrics are the words that are making up songs, usually accompanied by music. Great song lyrics are clever in their writing and expressive in their messages. A song lyric may be simple, very obvious in its message, or very complex, and there are many song lyrics that have deeper meanings. In fact, there isn’t really a wrong or bad way for writing song lyrics.

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Avoid These Mistakes When You Write Lyrics

images-24For a lot of bands, writing the proper songs and lyrics is one of the major factors for success. Sure, composing unique music is absolutely important, but the quality of the written words, the lyrics of a song that accompany the music, or vice verse, often makes whether a song will be remarkable or that it remains in the vast sea of unremarkable songs.

So what is it that makes a lyric great and remarkable lyric? Well, that’s tough to answer in a simple, straightforward way, but maybe it’s a good idea to take a closer look at some common mistakes that should be avoided at all times when you write lyrics. If you will avoid these mistakes, the quality of your lyrics, so also of your songs, will definitely gain in strength:

1. DOn’t Attempt to include too many ideas

The best lyrics usually explore a theme or tell a story, and exactly because it focuses on just that one idea, the song presents a strong cohesive feel right from the from first to the last verse. A common mistake made by many lyric writers is that they try to include multiple ideas or themes into one song. This often will lead to the notion that each separate theme or idea feels isolated from the song’s overall theme or idea. Keep it simple is key!

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